He who aspires to perfection must carefully avoid saying: "I was right ... They did that to me without reason." If you wish to bear only "reasonable" crosses, perfection is not for you.
St. Vincent de Paul was ordered by a
prelate to receive in his
monastery a zealous
religious and to help him in his plans. The holy man did so and gave him opportune advice. However, a few religious, not pleased with the reformer, criticized St. Vincent to the same prelate. The latter, forgetting that he himself had given those orders, called St. Vincent and, in the presence of those same religious, reprimanded him. The saint received the correction with joy, uttering not a word to justify his action.