To be genuine, humility must be accompanied by charity, that is, we must love, seek and accept humiliations so as to please God and resemble
Jesus. Otherwise, we would be practicing humility as pagans.
Of St. Vincent de Paul it truly can be said that he possessed real humility. He always did his utmost to remain hidden and unknown, to lower himself in the eyes of others and to be despised. He never let slip by any occasion of humiliation, but always accepted it willingly and joyfully.
All this he did because he really thought very little of himself and in order to imitate the Son of God Who, as he said in a conference once day, "being the splendor and glory of His Father, not content to lead a life of continual humiliation, willed, even after His death to remain before our eyes in a state of ignominy – nailed to the
Cross." St. Vincent's humility was, indeed, so sincere that it showed in his eyes, his face and his whole bearing.